by Loup Garou » Sun, 11Jul24 18:20
I am not in a relationship. I am certainly old enough to become attached to another person (late 40's), and I certainly do appreciate the human female. But, hey, when one is living on anti-seizure medications that remove energy from ones life to the point that taking care of ones self is about as far as that person can go, placing ones self as a burden on another is not an option that I consider feasible for myself.
So why should I be posting here? I still have fantasies that, were I to actually be in a relationship, would be on the top of my list. The strongest fantasy that I have had in my mind stems from nature of the males of our specie and their tendency to squirt, roll over, and go to sleep. (I am not accusing anyone here of falling into that category... just pointing it out.) My fantasy goes the exact opposite direction. On a day... any given day... not just her birthday, or Valentine's day, or Christmas... I would cook for her, draw her bath, give her a FULL body massage. Tend to her needs. And when that massage begins to deal with muscles and body areas which have more electric nerve endings, that is when the sex fantasy begins. Basically ignoring my own "needs," I would begin to, for lack of a better term, drive her insane, digital manipulation and cunnilingus being my primary tools (and, if Mr. Happy is up for it, I am sure some vaginal penetration would be involved, but only late in the game, after I have brought her to multiple orgasms, and only if I know for sure that it is not going to drain my energy to the point that I will wander off to sleep land). Note that, through out this situation, I would be asking her to give me directions (see, Lou, you are not the only one who encourages others to express themselves and their needs during intimacy). Then, when I am sure that the session has reached its peak, I will take her into my arms, hold her, and encourage her to express herself (talk... about anything).
I am sure this is a strange fantasy. But it is mine. 8-)