I am stuck at the punishment scene for alacy(for stoping the anal touch) and she always runs away after I slap her too much. I have built up the meter as high as i could and slapped her only because I cannot find any other hotpoints.. she begs the guy to stop... but It still only allows slapping... Am I missing something??

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