On behavioural guidelines for this ForumFollowing the discussion around this topic (and swimming here in the lagoon for a while now), I would like to present my thoughts about this topic to you in the hope, that it could help as a basis for further exploring this matter and finally improving the current status. And I would like to structure the topic along a set of requirements that from my understanding are implicitly valid in the lagoon.
1. Comply to legal regulationsEach country has it's own laws that have to be respected, and the regulations usually vary between countries. As this forum is operated and owned in France, it has to respect the legal regulations of France.
As I don't know much about law, I have just looked up what big companies in France usually do. As an example, just take the french website of HP (an international computer company with enough lawyers to know what they do). This website provides a link in very small letters, even below the bottom line of the page, that says "L'utilisation de ce site implique que vous en acceptiez les conditions". The link points to a legal text in french
http://welcome.hp.com/gms/fr/fr/sz6/termsofuse.html (with the known charm of legal texts). Translations to other languages are not necessary, and this seems to be sufficient to get the provider and the owner of the site out of trouble, and thus fulfills the requirement 1. stated above.
Infringement of these rules is punished by law.2. Respect the code of conduct (mandatory)This is a very different topic. Where in point 1. above, we assume that everybody basically knows the limitations of law, in addition to that we expect a certain code of conduct of all our members that lies beyond the legal regulations. And this is of more practical importance for our activities here, as this code of conduct constitutes the "culture" of the forum and makes the difference between an environment where you feel comfortable and are part of a community, and an environment where you just rush inside, grab everything you can get, and leave as quickly as possible.
This code of conduct, to my opinion, comes in two flavours where the first one is composed of rules that are mandatory to be obeyed. This topic includes such rules as stated in the "Rules of behaviour" of the "Introductions" section, namely respect of legality (= translate some aspects of the "legaleze" from requirement 1. into understandable language), respect of the property and, respect of the members. Every member of the lagoon has to behave according to these rules, otherwise he is in the wrong lagoon.
Infringement of these rules is punished by Shark and the moderators.3. Respect the code of conduct (desirable)These are rules that should be obeyed to be a "good member of the community". In our real life society these are rules such as to offer your seat in a tram to an old lady, greeting a neighbour if you meet him on the streets, or simply saying "Thank you" if you get something. For us here this would have the character of a collection of hints and "traditions" of this forum such as, not posting a walkthrough within 3 weeks of appearence of a game, say "thank you" if someone helps you out with a technical solution to your problem, et cetera. Shortly formulated: be nice, then the sun shines brighter for us all.
Infringement of these rules is punished by the community.ImplementationNow how can we make sure that every member of the lagoon knows these regulations and interprets them within a certain degree of tolerance?
The simple and true answer is: we can't.
So: what can we do about it?
Regarding rules of category 1, the simplest way would be to just have a small link somewhere on the first page (see example from HP France). To get the illusion that people really have read it, another approach would be the proposal of
co90921 in
http://sharks-lagoon.aceboard.fr/p-2153 ... tm#id90927 to introduce a simple user interaction element during the registration process such as a button. But we all know these "License agreement accepted" buttons from standard software installations: has anybody ever read the license before clicking "OK"? (... and I don't dare to add "and understood the implications")
Regarding the rules of category 2 and 3, the idea I proposed was to "teach" these rules in a game, i.e. have a small game that states each of the rules, gives practical examples and counterexamples, and presents all this in an agreeable, humorous way with small sexy "rewards" after each lesson. This game shall not inhibit the registration process, but it could in a certain way be proposed to the new member, such that there is some motivation to "play" it and gain a maximum number of points. A possible scenario could be:
[*]Registration process remains unchanged as it is today (possibly revise the wording or add a short sentence in the sense of "yes, I will comply to the regulations of category 1" if necessary).
[*]On every login, the now registered lagooner gets a small popup window that tells him "Do you want to play the regulations game now? YES/NO". This will come up until she or he has "won" the game at least once. This popup window of course can be clicked away, but I assume that after a certain period of time everyone will try to accomplish this game to get rid of the window. And of course we have to expect frequent questions in the forum that ask "How can I get rid of the popup window".

This depends on the software of the forum and on the company that owns and operates this software.
[*]Ideally, the game would be of such a quality, that nobody wants to miss it, not even the "old" lagooners. That depends on the small "rewards" in the middle e.g., Nanny explains the rules, and the rewards are that Nanny remembers situations from her last holiday, pleasing herself in a lonely lagoon being only observed/joined/helped out by a mermaid ... or other of these numerous ideas that have been brought up in the different threads of this forum

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Another effect of this game would be, that we can get rid of the "legaleze" language that usually governs such behavioural rules, and "translate" them into normal, clearly understandable language, enriched with examples. I would also add some explanation of the reason behind each of these rules, so that people can better judge whether a certain action is in accordance to what is really meant or not.
We currently see the urgent need for better explanations of rules in the example "May I post this link?" that has escalated many emotions in the thread "All sexy games" in topic "Hentai High School". But as both parties are good lagooners, this issue has been settled in some PMs, and the lagoon can live peacefully ever after. (This could be used as an example for successful conflict resolution, though).
ContentHaving stated above the categories and the "how to", now the next step would be to collect potential content for the rules of category 2. and 3. And this content can be found here in the lagoon. The sources are:
[*]The chapter "Introduction" -> "Forum Rules"
[*]Questions that come up frequently and repeatedly.
[*]Questions that have been discussed controversely (e.g. "may I post this link")
[*](Mis-)behavior that has been "punished" by the community although it has nowhere been explicitly stated as unwanted behavior.
And for each content item we should have
[*]The rule
[*]The reason behind (why)
[*]Positive examples (DOs)
[*]Negative examples (DON'Ts)
We are a pretty international community here in the forum, and what is obvious for one person, can be not obvious for another --- both persons being valuable and repectable members of their own community and culture. Therefore it helps to make things explicit --- without emotion, without fingerpointing: we should just plainly state what is desirable, and what is not. This way everybody can refer to it and look it up in case of uncertainty.
So much for my "two cent"

Best regards,
qbv8