Not so much strangest place as strangest... situation. Some things to understand. First, though some find it hard to understand, my best friend is a VERY attractive woman. We are NOT Will and Grace (the fact that I am straight makes that impossible). Second, at the time of this story, I was dating a wonderful young woman. We were intimate, but she was uneasy about losing her virginity, so heavy petting, digital manipulation and filacio/cunnilingus (though she NEVER allowed me to bring her to orgasm... GO FIGURE) was the farthest we went. Our intimacy was pleasurable, but..
That aside, in the mid 1980's, one night, I was taking my best friend home from some event (don't ask me what, I don't rem). As we approached her parent's house and I was about to pull in to their driveway, my friend asked me to keep driving. She wanted to talk to me about something. We parked in an empty lot and as she got out of the passenger side of the car, she pulled my hand to move me to the passenger seat. She then walked around the car and took the driver's seat. She moved both of our seats back to the furthest point and began to undress. I... at that moment... was... to say the least... stunned. A beautiful young woman was seeking to please me. I did not ask her to do this; she did not ask me if I wanted her to. We had no "protection," so filacio was all she could give me, but... sitting there... fully clothed save for an open fly... and a very attractive woman, fully naked, lying with her face in my lap... It was a most memorable night.
We continued that relationship for a while after that night. Exploring each others' bodies. We were both in need of safe intimacy... physical contact with a person each can trust to give unconditional love. Me, because of the problems in my relationship. Her, because a fear of intimacy (past relationships had hurt her a great deal) drew her to the one man in her life that she KNEW she could trust.
After a few months, we came to a point in our relationship that dictated that we decide if we wanted to be friends or lovers. It was a mutual decision. Neither of us wanted to lose our friendship and, while we did love each other, neither of us was "IN" love with the other.
For those who may think it impossible for two people to end an affair and maintain a friendship, understand this. Last night, I was at her house. I played some card games with her and her fiance (They have the full Munchkin series). And I watched her stomach twitch from time to time as their fetus played drums on her kidneys (Yes, she is in her mid 40's, but the baby is healthy and there are NO signs of downs syndrome. This is her third child... the first two from her first marriage. The other two are very healthy, very intelligent. She was never in love with her first husband, but she did not believe that kind of love was possible. But, upon finding her fiance, she came to understand that.. she was wrong. I know that those two will be together till death parts them. I am very happy for her.).
Ok. That was probably not the level of detail one might expect when asking the question this forum has asked, but... I was born a story teller.
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